Elvira R. “Ducky” (Avitabile) Mariani
Passed on November 22, 2025
Resident of Randolph, MA
Elvira R. “Ducky” (Avitabile) Mariani, passed away peacefully in the comfort of her home, surrounded by her loving family on November 22, 2025, at the age of 89.
Beloved wife of the late John “Monk” Mariani. Devoted mother of Sandra Bentley and her husband Daniel of Abington, John “Jay” Mariani, Jr. and his wife Mary of Middleboro, and Dean Mariani of Weymouth. Cherished Nana to Cristan, Adam, Cameron, Shayna, and Jizelle, and her great-granddaughter Gabriella. Also survived by many other loving family members.
Daughter of the late John and Rena Avitabile.
Born, raised and educated in Quincy, and graduated from Quincy High School in 1953 but has been a resident of Randolph for the past 62 years. She worked at the Boston School for the Deaf for many years, followed by Regan Associates in Canton before retiring.
Ducky was the president of the South Randolph Little League and then ran the concession stand for many years thereafter. She was proud of her Italian heritage and was thrilled to travel to Italy. Her most memorable trips were to Hawaii with her husband and friends.
Ducky was truly a pillar of her community. She was one of the true mothers of Randolph. Known for her strong faith, she was a dedicated member of St. Mary’s Parish, where she served on the Hospitality committee.
An avid and loyal sports fan who followed her Boston teams faithfully. On any given day, she could be found cheering on her grandkids at all their hockey and baseball games. In later years, she loved being able to spend her days with Gabriella, her great-granddaughter. Family was most important to Ducky.
Funeral from the Hurley Funeral Home, 134 So. Main St. (Rt. 28), Randolph on Monday, December 1st at 9:15am followed by a funeral mass at St. Mary’s Church in Randolph at 10am. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend. Visiting hours will be held on Sunday, November 30th from 2-5pm. Interment private.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Elvira’s memory may be made to St. Mary’s Parish, 22 Seton Way, Randolph, MA 02368 or via stmaryrandolph.org/donate.
Services
Visitation
- November 30, 2025
- 2:00 pm-5:00 pm
- Hurley Funeral Home
134 South Main St.
Randolph, MA
Funeral Service
- December 1, 2025
- 10:00 am
- St. Mary Church, 211 North Main St., Randolph, MA 02368
I’m so sorry for your loss Cristan. She was such a loving grandmother too you. Unfortunately I hadn’t seen her in years but I’m sure she knows I’m praying for her and the rest of your family. If you need anything feel free to reach out.
i will cherish my memories of my auntie Ducky. As a kid i spent many days & nights at her house on 48 chocato park. i don’t think there was anyone who’s kid played baseball who didn’t know monk and ducky mariani. my uncle johnny coached ball and my aunt Ducky ran the concession stand . when i began working as a hairdresser , i asked Ducky if she would be my model. no hesitation, she said of course !!! she was my biggest cheerleader. Rest in peace Duck !! love you so much !!!
Cristan, I’m truly sorry to hear for this unfortunate loss. May the wonderful memories you have made with her be the ones that allow her to live on through stories you share. Sending all my love and prayers to you, Gabby and the rest of your family. Xo
My deepest condolences to my dear Deany and your family. Even though I never had the chance to meet your mom in person, I could truly feel how loving, warm, and kind she was through the messages and videos also all of her nice pictures . I feel deeply sad that I never had the opportunity to pay my respects to her while she was still here, but I will always remember her kindness.
Please know that my thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. I hope you all stay strong and support one another as you go through this loss. Even though I cannot be there in person, I am here for you, and my heart is with you always.
May your mom rest in peace.
Love you Mom.🙏🫂🙏
Sandy and family, I am so sorry to hear of your mother’s, grandmother’s, and great grandmother’s passing. I have such fond memories of your mother and father, you memorialized her perfectly with your words and brought a smile to my face. Keeping all of you in my prayers.
Ducky was one of the kindest, loving people I have ever met. I cherished our weekly chats and I admired her faith.
She was my traveling buddy and I loved her sense of humor.
There is a special place in heaven for her.
We were blessed to have her in our lives
and now we all have our own Angel watching over us.
God bless u Ducky!!
Sandi, JJ and Dean,
I’m so sorry to learn of your mother’s passing. Losing a mother is so very hard. It is clear that she was cherished and loved so very much and will be missed dearly. Please know my family and I are thinking of you at this difficult time
With our sympathies
Laura Ann (Serafini) & Richard Jones
So sad to hear of my cousin Ducky’s passing. She was an incredibly sweet soul! I last saw her 3 yrs ago at a couple of the cousins lunches that i was able to attend. I will always remember the good times with her when she came to RI every year for our Memorial Day picnic @ Misquamicut Beach to see my mom & dad,( Marie & Ernie Perno.) I’m sorry I could not attend the funeral I’m in Florida for a few months. Sending love and hugs to the entire family from your CT cousins. May Ducky and Johnny be together in baseball heaven! Xoxo
Jay so sorry to hear of the passing of your mom my deepest condolences to you and the entire family you all are in my thoughts and prayers